“Hi Ho, Silver, Away!” That shout and the William Tell Overture
marked the beginning of one of my favorite TV shows, as a kid. Yes, it was The
Lone Ranger! While the masked man, always in white, trusty Colts holstered to
both thighs, and the famed silver bullets sought to right wrongs he never
really was alone. The original dynamic duo of Clayton Moore and Jay Silverheals
(The Lone Ranger and his faithful companion Tonto) seldom did anything alone.
I do not know how many times I have heard and have given the
advice to pastors, “Don’t be a lone ranger.” For some reason most of us seem to fall into
the trap of believing, “If it is to be, it is up to me.” I admit, I have fallen into
that trap on more than one occasion. Having served on presbytery committees on
ministry (the tradition bodies responsible for the care and oversight of
ministers and congregations) and serving as primary staff for that committee of
many years, my observation is ministers are prone to act like lone rangers. In
part, I think that is because we are not taught how to truly work with the
elders on the session.
We come from seminary with a shiny new sheriffs badge pinned
to our robe thinking it is now our job to “call the shots,” because “there’s a
new sheriff in town.” Some continue with that attitude throughout their
ministerial service. Working with the Session is an art to be developed. Too
often pastors tend to see, at least some elders, as advisories rather than
allies in leading congregations in greater faithfulness as disciples of Jesus.
William Arruda makes a case for “Why You Need to Hire a
Coach in 2015” in an article published in Forbes. http://www.forbes.com/sites/williamarruda/2014/12/09/why-you-need-to-hire-a-coach-in-2015/. I highly
commend the article to the reading of all who are serving as a pastor whether
newly sworn in or of long tenure. Arruda states, When it comes to building your personal brand, a coach can be a
powerful resource who can help you get out of your own way, stand out, and take
action to achieve the things that are truly important to you. For us as
ministers, we can substitute “pastoral style” for “brand” in Arruda’s quote.
If leaders in business and industry
are realizing the value of coaching, why has the Church not realized it also? Some
presbyteries and synods are offering groups for new pastors. Only a few are
providing for pastors, especially the newly ordained, to have a coach. If we counsel
ministers not to be lone rangers, why do we use the sink or swim test in the
first years of pastoral service without a swim coach?
I think it would have been very
interesting to sit in on the campfire conversations between the Lone Ranger and
Tonto (just as it would have been interesting to hear the nightly gathering of Jesus and the Twelve). My guess is that is where they mutually developed strategies to deal
with the problems and bad guys they would be facing. I can hear them holding
each other accountable for what and how things went. A coach is the pastor’s
trail companion as Tonto was for the Lone Ranger.
Presbyteries and congregations can
strengthen the pastor’s service by making sure the pastor has a coach. I have
maintained the belief pastoral tenure can be lengthened by having a coach. It
is not good for pastor or congregation to have a “new sheriff in town” every
three to five years. In the long run, it is less costly for a congregation,
presbytery or synod to invest in providing a coach for new pastors than to
constantly be in the pastoral search process.
Good for you, Wayne! Sage advice from an EP colleague I have always viewed as a 'sage!'
ReplyDeleteAs always, your posts get to the heart of ministry issues. I really get your point about business and industry using coaches. Why not churches? I always get valid comments from your blog. Since I have so many friends in ministry and as a lay speaker myself, I am always glad to share your insights with others.
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