Pastor Appreciation Day/Month

October has been proclaimed Clergy Appreciation Month. I asked myself who and by what authority was that proclamation made? A quick search of the Internet yielded three different answers.

“In 1992, layperson Jerry Frear, Jr., was brainstorming with church colleagues about how they might be of help to their minister when he glanced at a calendar and noticed that it was almost Groundhog Day. ‘I thought, if they have a day for groundhogs, there ought to be a day for the 375,000 clergy people in America.’ Frear says. So…for the last seven years the second Sunday in October has been set aside to show appreciation for our clergy.” (Sept./Oct. 1996 issue of the Saturday Evening Post related the origins of Clergy Appreciation Day.) {http://snowdenwiththefam-daneille.blogspot.com/2012/09/pastors-appreciation-day.html}

Started by Hallmark Cards in 1992, the officially-named Clergy Appreciation National Day of Honoring is usually called Pastor or Clergy Appreciation Day. It falls on the second Sunday of October each year and is sometimes promoted as a month-long time to remember and honor the work of Christian clergy. (http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-pastor-appreciation-day.htm#didyouknowout)

Focus on the Family named and began emphasizing Clergy Appreciation Month in 1994, reminding congregations that it was biblical and proper to honor their pastoral staffs and pastoral families throughout the year, but suggesting that they set aside the month of October for a special tangible tribute. (http://www.thrivingpastor.com/clergyappreciation/)

I am not going to try to decide which answer is correct. I do believe Hallmark will look for any reason to sell more “greeting cards.” There are several sites which give suggestions for observing CAM, and several more willing to sell trinkets to give to the minister. Every minister wants another appreciation plaque to hang on the wall, or ballpoint pen engraved with the minister’s name engraved on it. (I never found that prevented losing the pen and never having it returned).

I do know the kind of things which eat at a pastor’s innards, things which wear pastors down, things which make pastors weep. Some of them are: conflict in the congregation, attacks on the minister because of an unpopular sermon, gossiping about the pastor in the community, a general lack of respect, budget deficiencies, balancing the budget with no increase in pastoral compensation, gossiping about the pastor’s spouse and children, demanding 365/24/7 availability of the pastor and the list can go on and on.

There are some biblical injunctions about how to truly show pastoral appreciation.

Hebrews 13:17   New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)

17 Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls and will give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with sighing—for that would be harmful to you.

  

1 Thessalonians 5:12-13   New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)

12 But we appeal to you, brothers and sisters, to respect those who labor among you, and have charge of you in the Lord and admonish you; 13 esteem them very highly in love because of their work. Be at peace among yourselves.

If congregations really want to show their minister/priest/rabbi/imam appreciation try living out the advice of these Scriptural passages. The congregation members will be the ones who will receive the greatest benefit.